But when the noise dies down, when the house is quiet, and your phone’s not buzzing, it hits you:
You feel alone, unseen, and burned out.
Not broken. Just… done.
I know. And I help men like you.
No insurance. No diagnoses. No checklists.
Just real conversation and deep, honest work—wherever you are, however you need it.
Zoom. FaceTime. Phone. Or we meet at the beach and talk for two hours.
You get to show up as you are, and we figure out where the hell you go from here.
I’ve been a therapist for over 20 years.
But I don’t talk like one.
I don’t ask “how that makes you feel” a dozen times, and I don’t nod for 50 minutes.
Men don’t need soft talk and vague affirmations.
We need truth.
We need someone to actually see us—without flinching.
And we need real direction, because the old ways aren’t working anymore.
I work with men who feel like they’re at the end of their rope.
Married men who feel ignored.
Divorced men who are trying to rebuild.
Fathers who are tired of walking on eggshells.
Sons who never got what they needed.
Men who are done pretending it’s fine when it isn’t.
I know this terrain. I’ve walked it myself.
This work isn’t therapy as usual. It’s deeper than that. It’s real, direct, and rooted in your actual life.
If you’re ready to stop circling the drain, I’m here to help.
Simple. Real. Flexible.
$200 per session.
No insurance. No third-party telling us what’s “allowed.”
Just you and me.
Sessions are 50–60 minutes.
If we need more time, we take it.
If we need to meet somewhere that makes more sense for the work, we’ll go there.
Want to talk while walking the beach? Fine.
Prefer a phone call so you can pace around in your garage? Good.
Want to sit in your truck and cry without shame? Let’s do that too.
This work is about you—what you need, and what actually helps.
We don’t waste time. We go straight in.
Men who feel emotionally shut out by their partner
Fathers overwhelmed by pressure, guilt, and silence
Men trying to stay sober without falling apart
Men stuck in resentment, rage, or numbness
Good men who are tired of feeling like they’re never enough
Men questioning their marriage, their role, or their sanity
If you’re not interested in surface-level therapy, and you want real change, I’m the guy you call.
“Ran helped me see that she just didn’t really love me. After a separation, Ran helped me find myself again. I’ve never felt better.”
— C., 44
“When I asked questions, Ran gave me truth. Real, honest answers. I haven’t trusted like this in a long time.”
— J., 39
“I wasn’t sure what I needed. But I knew I couldn’t keep going the way I was. Ran helped me figure it out. And I got my life back.”
— D., 52